My body can\'t even miscarry properly

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  1. I had a missed miscarriage and a d&c last Friday after being told 8 days before our baby had died. I was doing fine after the d&c only lightly spotting and then 5 days later I start having severe cramps and passing large clots. I thought the whole point of the d&c was to get rid of this stuff. The following morning I had to go to the ER because of the pain and the u/s shows I still have stuff in my uterus - they don't know if it is clots or retained tissue so now I have to take the pills to make my uterus contract and if that doesn't work another d&c on Tuesday. Why can't anything work for me? How much do I have to go through? And even after all this I don't even have a baby to take home.

  2. oh, bakar, I am so sorry you are going through this. It is so frustrating when it seems like every step of the way we get the worst end of the odds.

    I sure hope this resolves soon.


  3. I am really sorry about your m/c. As if it isn't hard enough without having to have two surgeries. I had something similar happen and it was difficult for me too. I hope that the bleeding is behind you soon. Again I am very sorry.

  4. I totally know how you feel. We dound out we lost our twins April 28th had the D&C May 1st. May 7th I had a horrible cramp and felt something coming out ran to the bathroom in time to pass one of the twins. thats right 6 days after my d&c. I held her in my hand no mistaking it for a baby it was horrible. I am so sorry you are having to go through this. I hope its over for you soon.

  5. I'm so sorry you are going through this. My heart just breaks. Why does someone who's been through so much have to go through so much more? I am just so sorry.

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