So McNasty has the kids during the entire month of July. He e-mailed me yesterday asking what summer arrangements I had made for our 6yo's care during his period of posession. I told him that I had enrolled her at the Y and then, come to find out, he thought I was supposed to pay for their care (all three of them) while they were with him as I receive child support.
Ummmmm, no..... Divorce decree says he's responsible for their CARE during his visitation so then he tells me he'll be pulling them out, including the twins, of their normal settings to a place of his designation. I go back to the divorce decree and Ummmmmm - NO, I have exclusive right to decide where they go as I'm the primary parent.
Right about now I'm sure he's twenty shades of red and wanting to beat me but hey, his atty drew up the decree and we simply amended some items and agreed to it.
Honestly, I'll need the money I save in July to send dd to Y during my periods of posession.
LMAO. Just had to share a small victory after years of torture and almost a year of him being gone. Woo hoo - I love being literate.